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Iām Alex Kaplan, a Headshot Photographer and videographer based in New Milford, NJ, serving Northern.
Time moves quietly. Children grow. Parents settle into new chapters. And grandparents, with all their warmth and presence and accumulated history, become something increasingly irreplaceable in the fabric of everything your family is.
That is what I kept thinking about during the Burnston family’s multigenerational family photo session at Davis Johnson Park in Tenafly. Four generations. A golden doodle with a personality three times her size. A spring morning that gave us blooming azaleas, soft tree-filtered light, and moments I did not have to manufacture.
Why are multigenerational family photos important?
Multi-generational family photos preserve meaningful moments shared between grandparents, parents, children, and family pets. These sessions document emotional connection, family legacy, and authentic relationships that grow more valuable with every year that passes.
There is a version of your family that exists right now, in this exact configuration, that will never exist again. Your kids are this age. Your parents look exactly like this. Your grandparents are here, and that is not something to take for granted.
Research published by the American Psychological Association has found that strong family connection and a shared sense of history significantly contribute to emotional well-being across all generations. Multigenerational family photos are one of the most tangible ways to anchor that shared history in something lasting.
After 30 years doing this work, the calls I receive most often are not from families planning ahead. They are from families who wish they had. Who have a hundred phone snapshots and nothing that actually feels like what those years felt like. Photographs of family photos with grandparents, parents, and small children together in one frame become the ones people reach for when they want to remember who they were to each other.
Before the session, I always recommend reading through what to wear for family photos to handle the details that trip families up before they become day-of stress. And if you want to see what extended family storytelling looks like across different ages and group sizes, the three generations family photo session at Knight Park is worth a look.

Davis Johnson Park has an organic, botanical-garden quality that makes extended family sessions work without requiring anyone to perform for the camera. Wooded paths. Stone walls thick with moss. A classic wooden gazebo. Open green space where a toddler and a dog can both do exactly what they want to do, which as it turns out, is great for photography.
The Burnstons arrived as themselves. Grandpa in his wide-brimmed hat with his cane. Grandma in the red jacket she has probably worn to a hundred family events. Dad holding the baby. Mom holding the leash. The dog investigating everything.
That ease is not accidental. With more than 635 five-star Google reviews built across 30-plus years of work as a family photographer in New Jersey, the approach I have always come back to is the same: let the family be the family, get out of the way of the real moments, and stay ready for the ones that arrive without announcement. The toddler reaching for grandma’s hand while everyone tried to settle the dog down. The laugh on the stone path that nobody staged. Those are the frames that will matter most.

The question I hear most before a session is some version of this: “What if we are awkward in front of the camera?”
The answer is movement. Conversation. Comfortable pacing.
When families walk, talk, or focus on something together, the camera becomes irrelevant to them. I give gentle direction rather than rigid poses. I ask grandparents to hold the baby for a moment while I shift my angle. I ask parents to look at each other instead of me. I let the dog be a dog. Candid family photography is not about capturing accidental images. It is about creating the conditions where real expression has room to come forward on its own.
What I have found over three decades is that the families who arrive most relaxed are usually the ones who accepted, going in, that not every moment will be picture-perfect. That acceptance is actually what makes the session work. A child who runs in the wrong direction. A dog who refuses to sit still. A grandparent who laughs at exactly the wrong moment. Those are not problems to manage. They are the session.
The most natural-looking frames from every extended family session I have done almost always come from the five minutes after a family stops thinking about looking natural. After 30-plus years of family photography in New Jersey, I have not found a more reliable truth than that.

Davis Johnson Park is a particularly strong location for multi generational family photography for a few layered reasons. The tree canopy creates soft, diffused light that flatters everyone in the frame, from the youngest face to the oldest. The botanical character of the grounds means every background is visually interesting without requiring any setup. And the variety of spaces within a single park, paths, stone walls, the gazebo, benches under old trees, means you leave with a full story rather than a handful of similar poses.
Outdoor family photography also removes the pressure of a studio. Families move. They explore. Children and dogs have space to do what they want to do. The energy shifts naturally over the course of an hour, and I follow it rather than fight it.
For multi-generational groups specifically, that space matters in a way it simply does not indoors. Grandparents set their own comfortable pace. Kids run. Nobody feels like they are standing against a backdrop waiting to be photographed. Everyone ends up more relaxed than they expected, and it shows in every frame.

Coordinating a large, extended family group takes a different kind of preparation than a standard session with just parents and kids. A few things that make a real difference:

There is a version of these photographs that ends up framed in a hallway, or in a book that a grandchild finds someday and holds very carefully. Not because they are technically perfect. Because they are true. Because they show exactly who these people were to each other during a specific spring morning in a park in Northern New Jersey, with a dog and a toddler and a red jacket and a wide-brimmed hat.
The most meaningful family photography is not about the images themselves. It is about the evidence they leave behind. That this family, in this exact season, loved each other in this specific way.
If your family is at a point where everyone can still come together, that is worth documenting. Not someday. Now.
To talk about scheduling a relaxed, meaningful outdoor session, contact Alex Kaplan Photo at 917-992-9097 or 201-834-4999. You can also reach out directly through the contact page and share a little about your family and what you are hoping to preserve.
