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How to Take Your Own DIY Headshot (Tips from a Pro Photographer)

July 1, 2025


Let’s be real — not everyone has the time or budget for a professional headshot. Maybe you’ve got a last-minute Zoom interview. Maybe you’re updating your LinkedIn while in-between gigs. Or maybe you just don’t love the idea of getting in front of a camera.

Whatever the reason, I’ve got your back.

As a headshot photographer in New Jersey with over 30 years of experience, I’ve worked with everyone from CEOs to brand-new real estate agents. And while nothing beats a professionally guided session, I also believe you should like the way you look in your photos — even if you’re doing it yourself.

So here’s how to take a solid, credible DIY headshot with just your phone, a window, and a little bit of strategy.




What You’ll Need

You don’t need fancy gear to get started. Here’s what I recommend:

  • A smartphone with a decent camera (iPhone or Android — both work great)
  • A tripod or something stable to prop up your phone (a stack of books can work in a pinch)
  • A clean, uncluttered background — a plain wall or curtain is perfect
  • Natural light — more on that below
  • (Optional) A Bluetooth shutter or use your phone’s self-timer

No ring light? No problem. You can get great results with a window and some planning.




Lighting: Your Best Friend or Worst Enemy

Lighting makes or breaks a photo — and it’s the most common issue I see in DIY headshots.

Here’s how to make it work for you:

  • Face a window. You want soft, indirect natural light, not direct sunlight.
  • The best light comes from north-facing windows or when the sun is lower in the sky.
  • If shooting outside, aim for golden hour — about 1 hour before sunset.
  • Avoid overhead lighting (it creates unflattering shadows under your eyes and nose).
  • Never stand with your back to a window — it’ll blow out the background and turn your face into a silhouette.

Pro tip: Hold your hand out and rotate slowly — when your palm looks the most even and glowy, that’s your light direction.




Framing and Composition

You don’t need to be a photographer to frame a decent shot.

  • Head and shoulders only. Leave a little space above your head, but don’t include your whole torso.
  • Keep the camera at eye level (or just slightly above) — never below your chin.
  • Use the rule of thirds or turn on grid lines on your phone for balance.
  • Make sure your background is clean and free of clutter. A white or neutral wall works great.
  • Take a step or two away from the wall so it blurs a little.

And don’t shoot too close — step back and crop later for better proportions.


Posing and Expression

The biggest mistake I see? Stiff poses and forced smiles.

Here’s how to loosen up:

  • Drop your shoulders and take a breath before the shot.
  • Push your chin slightly forward to define your jawline (feels weird, looks great).
  • Imagine you’re talking to someone you like — it helps you smile naturally.
  • A subtle smile or confident closed-lip expression works great for professional profiles.
  • Tilt your body slightly to one side — it’s more flattering than facing the camera straight on.

You don’t need to do a full pose session. Take 10–15 shots and pick the most natural one.




Editing: Keep It Light

Don’t go crazy with filters. A little cleanup goes a long way.

Here’s what I’d recommend using apps like Snapseed or Lightroom Mobile:

  • Adjust exposure (brightness) and contrast
  • Fine-tune warmth so your skin tone looks natural
  • Crop and straighten if needed
  • Blur the background slightly if it’s too distracting

Skip the heavy skin smoothing — it makes photos look artificial. You want to look polished, not plastic.


When to DIY vs. Hire a Pro

I’m going to be honest — a DIY headshot is better than no headshot at all. But it does have its limits.

DIY is fine if:

  • You need something fast and temporary
  • You’re building a placeholder for LinkedIn or Zoom
  • You’re comfortable being self-directed

Hire a professional if:

  • You’re job hunting in a competitive industry
  • You’re rebranding yourself or launching a business
  • You need consistent images across your website or team
  • You want to actually like the way you look in photos

Professional sessions are guided, coached, and lit in a way that brings out your best — even if you usually hate how you look in pictures. That’s what I do every day.


Final Thoughts

Taking your own headshot doesn’t have to be stressful. With a little know-how and the right light, you can create something that feels clean, confident, and true to you.

And when you’re ready for something more elevated — when you want a photo that makes you say, “Damn, that’s me?” — I’m here for that too.




Want headshots that actually make you feel good about how you look?
I offer clean, modern portraits with expert posing and fast delivery.
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💬 Click here to schedule your headshot session or text 917-992-9097 — let’s make it happen.

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